- 29 Sep 2016
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Yes we talked about that a lot. We here going to spend Christmas together. She's never Christmas the way we celibrate it in Australia. I didn't even think it would be different. She said it's more of a romantic holiday or "dating holiday" than a family holiday over there. I told her that I would make her Christmas dinner and we could have decorations; do whole Christmas thing. I was supposed to apply for my pass port a month ago. I was delayed because I was trying to get someone who's known me for 12 months to be my Guarantor. Now I'll use anybody. She wanted to buy my plane tickets herself as soon as possible to get the best price. I messed that up a bit.Another unpleasant possibility is that she has been feeding you a lot of lies and BS all this time. I've seen her apartment building on Street View and I have trouble imagining a wealthy family with a daughter in the country's most prestigious university putting her in that building in that location. I wouldn't be surprised if the wealthy family background and attending Tokyo University are both just part of her fantasy life and exist only in her mind.
Had you recently been talking with her about wanting to come to Japan to see her?
I spend all day and into the night talking with her and messaging her. She gave up all of her hobbies (she had a lot) and her job at a shisha bar (she didn't have to work there but wanted to feel more independent) to talk to me. The only hobbies she kept were smoking shisha (just gel not tobacco), painting pictures for me and watering her plant collection. She gave up ALL of her time to talk to me. She didn't get to go to university for the second week after holidays because she had to find out about her disease. She had quite a few things to do when she came back to university after not attending much. Our relationship has many different layers to it. We don't just romanticize. It richer than that. We have talked about many different subjects, we joke, she likes to tease me, I tease her a bit, there's such a large density of communication for just two people in 3 months. Our communications are littered with little expressions that only we would understand. We talk about our day to day lives and subjects of conversation have included things like robotics, genetics, philosophy, food, Australian and Japanese politics, music, culture (especially differences) and so much more. She's also my best friend!
I'm not just some gullible, desperate, love-struck simpleton. I'm sorry if I've made it seem like our relationship is nothing but a cheap romance novel. It's more whole than that. We are real people. We've shared many very intamate moments but we talk plainly to.
I've Google earthed her appartment also. I don't know but that's the adress that she gave me. I googled the adress in English and Japanese. I think the Japanese one bares more geographical accuracy. But I don't know. She sent me a couple of picture of the view from outside of her appartment and you can see that big railway track that's next to the building that I found when I street viewed it.